Our Purpose
Talking about death won’t kill you and none of us are getting out of here alive!
Talking about death won’t kill you and none of us are getting out of here alive!
But have you ever thought what would happen if you were suddenly and unexpectedly unwell or seriously injured? What care would you want for yourself? How about if you die suddenly? Are your affairs in order and do your loved ones know? Are you ready for the inevitable?
TellThem4Me® was created out of loss, grief, regret, unanswered questions and the what if’s.
It provides an affordable, secure, and easy to use platform which your loved ones can access at time when they need it most, saving time, money and stress and allowing them to make decisions for a time when you can’t.
Record personal information including your name, DOB, physical and email addresses, and key contacts. You can also record the location of important documents like passports and birth certificates, important items including keys and any information about secure document or lock up storage.
Record who your closest family members are and the care arrangements you wish to see if you are unable to care for any child or adult dependents or pets.
Record an in-depth timeline of your life and preserve your family history whilst you can. You may include information about your birth, childhood and adult life, qualifications, places of work and any military service you have completed. You can also record your favourites, your love story and leave personal messages for loved ones.
Record details of key health care providers and a personal and family health history. You can also record your wishes with regards to your preferred health care, organ donation and end-of-life planning which may prompt important conversations with your loved ones.
Record details of key insurance policies including the type, provider details and policy numbers. This will save so much time for you and your loved ones in the future. You may also realise that you may be missing a certain type of insurance.
Record websites and apps that you use along with usernames and password hints to make life much easier for yourself and your loved ones. This section compliments the free Password book that you will receive as part of your membership.
Record information about your estate, your assets (things you own), your liabilities (things you owe) and personal possessions. This information is helpful to you and your loved ones to know and will save them time and hassle in the future or it may prompt you to organise or update your Will as required.
Record your wishes for the type of Funeral you would prefer, details about the service and the finer details asked of your loved ones when arranging a funeral. This may prompt you to initiate some difficult conversations with your loved ones so that your wishes are known. You cannot necessarily control the circumstances of your death, but you can control what happens afterwards.
Nominate up to 3 people who are given predetermined read only access to your information. Ideally Nominees will understand and respect your needs and wants so that they can make better choices on your behalf. This feature can help you to sort out and clarify issues which can be difficult to discuss with your loved ones, enabling them to represent you for a time when you can’t.
Record ICE essential information about your next of kin, health conditions, allergies, and medications. Your ICE File provides a shortened version of a full membership and includes the most important information from All About Me, My Family, My Health Care, My Insurance, My Estate and My Wishes. Members can add Nominees who can view their information and non-members can print and store their ICE Card & ICE File.
You choose the information you want your Nominees to know. Each of your Nominees has read only access to predetermined sections and these permissions can be updated by you at any time.
TellThem4Me® members receive a Members pack with a Digital Footprint password book, pen and fridge magnet.
All users have access to an ICE Card & ICE File which you can complete, download, print and store somewhere safe
ICE CARD
ICE FILE
Whether you are young, old, healthy, or sick, TellThem4Me® will help you to get organised so that you and your loved ones will know that they are doing what you would have wanted them to do.
Everyone has faced loss and grief but how much would you pay to ease the pain?
Our Purpose
D is for Death, Dying (the ‘dirty’ words), Decisions and Doing
When we think about aging, becoming unwell or dying, we usually feel sad. We know it is inevitable, but we try to push thoughts of dying and death to the back of our mind. There are lots of reasons why people don’t want to talk about dying but it is usually an emotional based reason of fear, denial, or grief. Fear that they will upset someone else, denial that someone we love will die or may be near to the end of their life and grief for the sadness of the loss of someone we once shared our life with.
You may think you have years ahead of you, hopefully you do but maybe you don’t. We are all in the ‘line’, none of us are getting out of here alive but talking about death and dying won’t kill you! If you think about death and dying though, you may question how ‘ready’ you are to die, and probably realise that not everything is in order. Fact is, no one is ever ready to die but there are steps you can take to provide peace of mind to yourself and your loved ones.
You may choose to initiate conversations about your life’s story, or your values and beliefs around your health care and quality of life, you may share important passwords, you may talk about your insurance policies, your finances and how you want your assets distributed when you are gone, or you may even wish to tell your loved ones the way you feel about them. Having those conversations now is important and if possible, recording them somewhere is even better. With or without a TellThem4Me® a membership, you will find comfort in the knowledge that recording your wishes means that when something bad happens, your loved ones will know that they are doing what you would have wanted them to do when the time comes.
“Organising is what you do before you do something so that when you do it, it is not all mixed up” A.A.Milne
Whether you are young, old, healthy, or sick, your essential and non-essential (but equally important information) will most likely be ‘all over the place’. There is no time like the present to get organised.
TellThem4Me® helps you to get your affairs in order. The secure online digital platform provides peace of mind, is affordable, accessible 24/7 and easy to use. A Membership provides a ‘nest’ for your information which your Nominees have read only access to when they need it most, allowing them to make decisions for a time when you can’t.
TellThem4Me® members have access to All About Me, My Family, My Story, My Health Care, My Insurance, My Digital Footprint, My Estate, My Wishes, My Nominees, and all users have access to an ICE Card & File.
TellThem4Me® members receive a Members pack which includes a My Digital Footprint password book and pen. Fortnightly e-newsletters are sent and are packed with useful information and reminders to update your information.